I never thanked you for getting me through the hardest time I think I ever had to go through when my husband overdosed and I had to bring him back…that was such a dark terrible time in my life and I just want to thank you for talking with me and helping me through it. It was a few years ago but you always were in my thoughts and mind. It was really important to me that I made sure I said thank you and how much I appreciate all that you said and did and guided me through I just really wanted to tell you how much you helped me with your groups and one in one.
So thank you – thank you for being you!
“I would highly recommend Carol Feldman if you are in need mental health therapy. Carol is a non-judgemental, warm, inviting individual that listens with an open heart and speaks the truth. She has helped me navigate through two major times of struggle in my life by showing me coping methods and opening my eyes to options. When I couldn’t see things from another point of view, she had techniques and ideas that truly made me break through walls that were holding me back. She was the truth mirror that I needed to look into, yet she is a safe space. Carol followed up with me when I least expected it to make sure I was alright. Carol connected with me and really cares and understands my life and where I want to go. If you need to talk to someone who will be open arms and ears, contact Carol, she is just a wonderful beautiful person all around. Simply the best…”
“Over the course of the last few months, my spouse and I have been working through our marriage issues with Carol Feldman. When a relationship or marriage is in jeopardy, it is a very trying time on the entire household. Carol earned my trust in a very short period of time, a near impossible feat. She is an exceptional listener, counselor, and person. Her guidance allowed me to open my mind to things I did not see before, enabling me to really start working on myself and with my spouse in an effort to save our marriage.
Carol’s approach was extremely effective in my situation. I will admit that I would not have been able to work through my issues without her counseling. I do not wish any personal or relationship issues on anyone, but if they happen, knowing that there are people like Carol Feldman out there gives me a great sense of optimism for everyone. I feel extremely fortunate to have had Carol help me, she is a top notch counselor who truly gives her heart and soul to helping people. She will always have my gratitude.”
“I just wanted to apologize profusely for the way I just stopped coming to you without any explanations. I hate when people do that! I never do it. Except, where I was in my life at the time I thought it best to let it go. Here I am seeking you out to explain why I stopped.
I didn’t think it possible to part with my husband. I wanted to seek counseling so that I could work it out. I wanted hope. Except you bluntly said why are you with him? Why do you love him? And when I said he truly has a good heart-you said, if you could get a dollar for every time a woman sat in my same exact seat and said exactly that! Well I was floored. I thought I wanted a blunt counselor-and I did. But I wanted hope. I wanted to work it out with my husband. I wanted to be married-like I always said since I was little-I want to be married once and never become a statistic (divorcee). I ran from the ugliness you were forcing me to face. I ran and ran. I couldn’t imagine what my life would look like-what my family and friends would say. How to raise a child without their father-just like I was-sort of. I wanted my children to be raised in a “whole” family environment.
Instead, our marriage got uglier and uglier. Never a kind moment. Never comfort and love. We had our second child. He started getting physically and verbally abusive. Until I feel dead inside.
I am done. I want out.
Anyway. I wanted to seek you out to explain why I fell off. I hate that. I know-If I were you, I would expect an explanation and communication-for the client to say what happened or what makes them uncomfortable. But I couldn’t. I chose the easy way out.
I want to apologize and let you know you were right.”
There are not enough words we could say or enough ways to express just how grateful we are to Carol. She has literally changed who myself and my husband are, individually as well as who we are as husband and wife. Her professionalism, encouraging words and direct approach to our problems has helped us get to solutions. After each session I left feeling inspired and with knowledge to make myself a better person.
We thank her for helping us to knowledge who we were, accepting and changing who we are, and showing us how to become who we want to be. But most of all, we thank Carol for giving us another chance. Through her counseling, my husband and I have another chance as a family, and for that we will be forever grateful. We are not the same as before we met you. “To you, Carol, you are extraordinary, thank you so much!
I will set the stage, I am sitting in front of Carol, and after talking with her for three minutes, she says I think you need to try Alcoholics Anonymous.I knew I was an alcoholic, but how did she? I was so down in the hole that was dug, I never thought I would ever get out, and just figured I would drink the rest of my life away.I did not know there was a solution, and if there was it was not going to work for me. No one knew what I was feeling, and how lost I felt.90 meetings in 90 days, this is what I was told would help. No way was I going to do this, or was it going to help me.I heard a life beyond my wildest dreams when I first entered these A.A. meeting, I thought to myself these people are out of their minds.I did these 90 in 90 and have never looked back.This program is the best thing that has ever happened to me; to be able to sit in a meeting with other Alcoholics, and say and hear things that so many others understand, truly amazing.I heard stories told by others that I could have written word by word. I was not that unique, there were others in this world having the same feelings as I was.Yesterday was my one year anniversary of Sobriety, and it was a year beyond my wildest dreams.I cannot thank Carol enough for what she has done for my family and myself.
“I attended your anxiety and depression workshop I wanted to say thank you it was not only informative, but it gave me some much needed information. From what I learned at your workshop I saw a specialist and have been diagnosed with Bi-Polar. Finally knowing why I have had all of these feelings and emotions over the years and now knowing why. This has been a blessing. I can honestly say that if I had not been at your workshop I would still be suffering with the issues of my illness. I am now on medication and making lots of lifestyle changes. Again I wanted to say thank you for your time, and your insight.”
“Phenomenal speaker Carol Feldman really made the attendees revisit their priorities and gain a better understanding of the influences different people have on our lives.”
“I feel really odd today but in a positive way. Thank you for creating a safe space for me to bring this issue to the top of my awareness, and thank you for your directness and candor. You helped me acknowledge what I have known deep inside all along. Much work to be done but I feel like I took a major, major step yesterday. Thank you so much, Carol.”
I never thanked you for getting me through the hardest time I think I ever had to go through when my husband overdosed and I had to bring him back…that was such a dark terrible time in my life and I just want to thank you for talking with me and helping me through it. It was a few years ago but you always were in my thoughts and mind. It was really important to me that I made sure I said thank you and how much I appreciate all that you said and did and guided me through I just really wanted to tell you how much you helped me with your groups and one in one.
So thank you – thank you for being you!
“This journey to discovering who I am and the woman I want to be started several years ago with help and guidance from Carol. When I met Carol, I was, anxious, working so hard to “make it look good”, trying to please people and struggling with my marriage and life. My sense of what is acceptable and unacceptable was skewed from my point of reference being the Adult Child of an Alcoholic. Through the years she has provided a safe and comfortable environment for me to share my story with all of my fears, tears, new discoveries and triumphs. I am excited to say the journey continues but I am now better equipped to set boundaries, forgive myself and others and am learning not to accept the unacceptable. I now know I do have choices and can only change myself not others. Carol has given me the knowledge to help me make positive changes in my life.”